In one scene in John Steinbeck’s haunting novel, The Grapes of Wrath, Ma Joad is at the company store of a ranch where she and her family are working as peach-pickers. They’re paid in vouchers, and because they didn’t earn enough the previous day, she doesn’t have enough money to buy sugar for the men’s coffee. Ma pleads with the storekeeper to allow her to take 10 cents worth now, against the money the men are currently earning in the fields, but the storekeeper refuses. It’ll cost him his job, and he’s got to feed his family too. They go back and forth; Ma begging, him refusing. Finally, the man puts his own money in the register, and tells Ma to bring the voucher in once the men get back from the fields, and he’ll take his dime back.
Ma’s words to him have echoed in my mind since I first read this book in high school:
“Thanks to you,” she said quietly. She started for the door, and when she reached it, she turned about. “I’m learnin’ one thing good,” she said. “Learning it all a time, ever’ day. If you’re in trouble or hurt or need - go to poor people. They’re the only ones that’ll help - the only ones.”
Over the years, I’ve learned this lesson well. When the chips are down, the people who will help and encourage you are those who have been where you are. They know what it’s like to fail, to fall, to suffer. They’ve scraped and scrimped themselves and made it through their own troubles because someone helped them. They don’t judge, they don’t condemn. They listen, they help, they ask for nothing.
As the days of gluttony approach - “Stuff-Yourself Day,” “Go-Into-Debt Day,” and the varied “Gimme-Gimme” Days (a/k/a: Thanksgiving, Black Friday, and Christmas/Channukah/Kwanzaa/Yule) - it’s nice to see a news report like this:
From the Associated Press:
The answer to one of the happiest mysteries in the Kansas City area is being revealed this year.
A man who has given away millions of dollars and become known as Secret Santa for handing out Christmas cash to the needy is allowing his name to be publicized after 26 years.
But the reason for the revelation is an unhappy one. Secret Santa has cancer. He wants to start speaking to community groups about his belief in random acts of kindness, but he can’t do that without telling people who he is.
The man who has spread cheer for 26 years is Larry Stewart, 58, of Lee’s Summit, who made his millions in cable television and long-distance telephone service.
Stewart told The Kansas City Star that he was the man who would walk up to complete strangers, hand them $100 bills, wish them “Merry Christmas” and walk away, leaving astonished and grateful people in his wake. He handed out money throughout the year, but he said it was the Christmas giving that gave him the most joy.
Now, he wants to inspire others to do the same. He said he thinks that people should know that he was born poor, was briefly homeless, dropped out of college, has been fired from jobs, and once even considered robbery.
But he said every time he hit a low point in his life, someone gave him money, food and hope, and that’s why he has devoted his life to returning the favors. [emphasis mine]
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But this will likely be the last Christmas for Stewart’s tradition. In April, doctors told Stewart that he had cancer of the esophagus. It had spread to his liver. He needed treatment, fast.
With help from Brett, he got into a clinical trial at the M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Texas. Doctors tell him the tumors have shrunk, but they can’t say whether the cancer is in remission.
“I pray for that man every single day,” former Kansas City Chiefs star Deron Cherry — one of Stewart’s elves — says. “There’s a lot of people praying for him.”
Take a moment to pray or meditate for a man who so clearly demonstrates Christ’s command to “be ye kind to one another.”